On Christmas morning, members of Rich Kulovanyâs family faced the grim reality that their father might not survive his fight with COVID-19.
âWe werenât ready to say goodbye to him yet,â said Kulovanyâs daughter, Jen KulovanĂ˝ Ostrum. âThat was an absolutely traumatizing thing, mostly because it went from âhe was sick, but he was fineâ to âhe was going to die.â We werenât prepared.â
Kulovanyâs wife Kathleen echoed her daughterâs sentiment.
âIt was very hard,â she said. âOn Christmas Day, I think we all knew what could happen, but I think we were all in denial, or at least I was.â
Indeed, Kulovany, a Downers Grove commissioner, nearly died from complications of the virus, but four months after his family was told he might lose his fight, heâs battling back from a virus that he described as âinsidious.â
âItâs relentless,â Kulovany said of the virus that has taken the lives of 573,000 Americans.
âIt comes in very much like waves, and when youâre at a low point you think youâre out of the woods thatâs when it comes in and slams you against the rocks,â said Kulovany, who has spent time in a hospital, specialty hospital and a rehabilitation facility.
âThere is so many ups and downs with this,â he said. âItâs very much you take one step forward and two steps backwards.â
Kulovany described his experience with the virus as ârelentlessâ and added that he continues to experience muscle weakness, coughing and a burning sensation in his feet.
âItâs a very slow process because Iâm going to physical therapy still,â Kulovany added.
Kulovanyâs daughter has set up an online fundraising page in an effort to help pay for her fatherâs medical bills. To donate to the campaign, visit https://bit.ly/3xFdWVp.
Kulovany Ostrum said she started raising money to help her mother feel at ease because her father hasnât been able to work. The family has raised more than $21,000, to date. The goal is $25,000.
Kulovany was preparing for a routine colonoscopy in early December only to find a positive result to a rapid COVID-19 test. Around that time, he thought he was developing a sinus infection.
âThat week was a rough week,â Kulovany said. âMy fever was 103.7. I had very serious fatigue.â
A short time later, Kulovany started feeling better only for things to quickly take a turn for the worse. He visited the emergency room at Good Samaritan Hospital on Dec. 11 where he would later be admitted. By Christmas Eve, he was starting to feel better again, but that feeling didnât last long. Instead, his health rapidly declined.
âI wasnât sure I was going to make it at that point,â he said. âIâm a man of faith, so I said a prayer.â
Kulovany recalled the moment on Christmas morning when he called Kathleen, informing her of the medical teamâs decision to place him on the critical list.
âThey sedated me, intubated me, put me on a ventilator,â he said, adding that he was in a medically-induced coma from Christmas Day until Jan. 9.
Kulovany said his medical team didnât expect him to make it.
âThe doctor told my wife that I was knocking on heavenâs door,â Kulovany said via phone during a March village council meeting, the first one in which he participated since contracting the virus.
Kulovanyâs daughter reflected on the despair her family faced at the height of her fatherâs battle with COVID-19.
âHis lungs were filled with COVID-pneumonia and he was absolutely exhausted,â Kulovany Ostrum wrote in a social media post. âDespite the best efforts of his care providers, his health continued to decline, and we received the call on Christmas morning that he was placed on a ventilator. That day our family had an extremely emotional Zoom call with him, though he was not conscious. We all thought we might be saying goodbye, and we begged him through our tears to please stay with us because we werenât ready to lose him.
âOver the weeks that followed we vacillated between hope and despair. We knew our dad was a fighter and he wasnât going to give up easily, and that hundreds of you have been praying and sending good thoughts. But this virus is such an unknown enemy, we couldnât be sure that heâd come back to us.â
Kathleen Kulovany said it brings great meaning to her knowing how she and her family pulled together to support her husband.
Upon coming out of the coma, Kulovany depended on a ventilator to breathe. He also struggled to communicate and digest solid food.
âI learned to read lips over FaceTime when Iâd FaceTime him,â Kathleen Kulovany said.
Things have improved for Kulovany since early December, but the road back wasnât easy.
On Jan. 20, Kulovany was transferred to a specialty hospital where he was taken off the ventilator and started physical therapy.
âI lost 30 pounds while I was in the hospital, and my muscles have atrophied,â he said.
As a result, heâs had to teach himself how to stand up and walk again. He also spent time at a rehabilitation facility before returning home where he continues his recovery.
âThat was an acute rehab program where they do a combination of three hours of occupational and physical therapies everyday,â he said.
It remains unclear how Kulovany caught the virus, though he has a theory.
âIâm fairly certain I know who gave this to me,â Kulovany said during his remarks at his first village council meeting in March.
He recalled a customer at the store where he works presenting him with a card that said he had a medical excuse not to wear a mask.
âSo I tried to take care of him the best I could and I was with him a pretty lengthy period of time and it turned out he kept getting closer and closer to me so he could see the computer,â Kulovany recalled. âSo, that was the only person who came within six feet for over five minutes of time.
So, Iâm sure that person felt he or she was exercising their personal rights. When I went to urgent care and told them the situation, the doctor said other than some psychological reasons, thereâs no medical reason not to wear a mask. So if that person would have been more thoughtful, just a little more thoughtful of others, it wouldnât have put me in the hospital. ... I was doing what I was supposed to do. I guess I got caught up in my work to help the guy out and paid the price for it.â
Kulovanyâs daughter said the whole ordeal doesnât add up, describing her father as âone of the healthiest people I know.â
âThe man exercises every day,â she said. âHe takes a ridiculous number of vitamins and supplements to stay healthy. Heâs incredibly healthy. Out of all of us, he is one person I would have thought would not get that sick at all, if he got it. We almost lost him because of it.â
Kulovany added that he took all the necessary precautions before getting sick.
âI was really intentional on wearing masks, social distancing, washing my hands and keeping up with all those precautions,â he said. âI knew the disease was real. I knew it was hitting people in various ways.â
Unfortunately, Kulovany wasnât the only member of his family to come down with the virus. His daughter also had a case that required hospitalization and other family members had mild cases of the virus.
Kulovany attended Downers Grove Village Council meeting in person April 13 and relished the opportunity to see his fellow council members.
âIt was really nice for the fact that I hadnât seen them since December,â he said.
Finally, Kulovany has a message for people questioning the virus and the impact it can have.
âThe disease is serious,â he said. âItâs insidious. It doesnât matter if you believe in it or not. It can hit you really hard. It can have some long-term effects.â